Thursday, September 16, 2010

Colon Cancer


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About two years ago I went with my mom to the hospital to have a colonoscopy test done that her doctor requested. It was supposed to be about a two hour procedure that ended up turning into a week stay. I was waiting for her in the waiting room alone when about an hour later her doctor came out to speak to me about the test. I was waiting for the doctor to come out, and to tell me that everything was ok, and she was ready to go home, but instead he pulled out a picture from the exam, and began to show me pictures of the cancer she had in her colon. This was one of the hardest moments that I have ever experienced, and I can imagine it was for my mom also. All I could think about was that I was going to be left without my mom, and with a sick father, and even though this was the one moment in life where I  would have felt completely alone, I didn’t, I really felt like God was with me the whole time, and never left my side.
This happened in December right before Christmas, and although it seemed like it was going to be the saddest Christmas's it was actually the Christmas where I felt the most blessed, and grateful. I was very thankful that God provided for my mom to be able to go to the doctor, and for them to find the cancer in time before it spread once again.

It’s very important for Adults, and anyone with a history of colon or any type of cancer to have screenings done. The average age in the United States that men and women begin to have screenings is at the age of 50, but because of the increasing rate of colon cancer doctors are recommending that both men and women begin to have screenings at the age of 45. I think it’s really important that we spread awareness for people to begin to become screened at early ages, so that the number of cancer survivors like my mom can increase.
If you want to find out more information on screening, and colon cancer you can visit the website that I used http://www.coloncancerfoundation.org/anyage.htm.  
xo

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Depression & Anxiety


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I was thinking of something that I could talk to you guys about, and I decided to talk about depression, and anxiety. In our everyday lives we are faced with a lot of different challenges, and situations that are sometimes more than we think we can handle. Although God will never put us in a situation that he thinks we cannot handle, these situations are sometimes a lot to deal with.
I think that many of us don’t deal with things in the right way. Like me for example instead of expressing how I might be feeling about a situation, I keep my emotions inside and I don't really talk about them, this is something that isn’t healthy. Different studies that I’ve recently read about show that those who keep all their fears and anxieties bottled up tend to suffer from depression, and also different forms of anxiety.
I have always counted on God to help me with everything I’ve been through, but lately I have also started to express my feelings especially throughout this blog, and to talk to people about how I feel. I wish that I would have done this from the beginning especially with my father’s sickness, because I think it would have been easier for me to cope with the situation. 
It's really important for you to always express how you feel, and to always be able to talk to someone about what you’re going through. This website that I found shows different symptoms of depression which can lead to different anxiety issues.

Some of the different symptoms they mentioned are:
  • unusual or sad mood that doesn't go away
  • lack of energy or tiredness
  • feeling anxious, empty or numb
  • getting headaches and stomach aches
  • not eating, and losing weight
  • not being able to sleep, or waking up early
It’s important that if you have any of those symptoms I’ve listed or that are on the website I shared with you that you reach out for help before it becomes a threat to your health.

This website also shares different links to other websites that talk about challanges you may be facing.
I hope this somehow helped some of you.
xo

Thursday, September 9, 2010

I created my first podcast telling you guys a little about my blog and why i choose to blog about this.
I hope you enjoy it!

American Stroke Association

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Hey guys this next website that I want to share with you guys is a website that was very useful to me with my dad. As I told you guys before my dad had sixteen cardiac arrests, and a stroke that left him paralyzed with severe brain damage, and only eighteen percent of his heart working . A lot of people find it hard to believe that he was able to survive all of that, but God has always been with him through everything. After he came home from being in the hospital for three months a lot of things changed. He wasn't able to function like the same dad he was before, but he was still my dad that I loved, and I was really happy to have him back home with me. 

Now that he was back home there were a lot of different precautions that had to be taken in order for him to be as healthy as possible. For example he wasn't able to eat through his mouth at first because the muscles in his throat didn't work properly, and there was a great possibility that he could choke, so he had to be given liquid supplements through a tube in his stomach. He recently passed what they call a "food test", and he is now able to take liquids that are thickened for him through his mouth. He isn't allowed to eat certain foods like spinach or green peas, because they interfere with the medicine he takes for his heart. We also have to try to help him lift his arms, and legs so that he doesn't accumulate blood clots. These are only some examples of things that have to be done for him daily.
Although the doctors gave us all the directions on that to do for his condition, this website www.storkeassociation.org was very useful to my mom who is the person who's always taken care of him. This website gives you other examples different precautions that should be taken with someone after they have a stroke. They also share different stories that I find inspiring and useful. These stories are of real caregivers like my mom who have gone through the same obstacles she goes through on a daily basis, and also for the family members like me and my little brother. 

I hope you guys found some of this information useful!
xo

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Reach Out

Hi again everyone! I'm really excited to share some new stuff that i found for you guys. I really liked this website that i came across, because they not only focus on one subject but various different ones. The website address is www.reachout.com.



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Different subjects that they focus on are
  • Loss and grief
  • Family relationships
  • School pressures
  • Drugs, Alcohol & Tobacco
  • Romance, Sexuality & Pregnancy 
I think these are a lot of issues that many of us deal with on a day to day basis. Some of you might feel like you have no one to talk to but the truth is that websites like these are willing to give you examples of real people who have been in the same situation that you might be in now.
With all the things Ive been through with my mom and dad there's times where i feel like i don't really feel like talking to anyone about how i feel, but with a website like this i don't have to. I can read about people who are going or have been through the same situation and see what advise they have for me. i can also see how they were able to overcome what they went through.
I hope this was helpful for some of you!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Susan G Komen for the Cure


Hi everyone! I've been researching different charities online that might be helpful to some of you. While searching I came across a charity that is very special to me.
The name of this charity is the Susan G. Komen for the Cure breast cancer charity. This is a charity which has been useful to me after my mom was diagnosed with breast and, colon cancer a couple years ago.She was able to have both cancers removed during an operation, and she then had to have radiation therapy.
A year later my mom had just been laid off from work and had no health insurance. It was time for her yearly check up for recurring any recurring breast or colon cancer. I reached out to Susan G. Komen for the Cure foundation after researching different charities online to see if there was anything they could do. They were very helpful, and not only gave me support, but they were also willing to answer any questions i had.
They also gave me the great advice of getting in touch with a local hospital in my area, and they were able to perform the cancer checkup test on my mom for no charge because she qualified for the hospitals financial assistance plan. Her breast exam came back negative, and we are still waiting for the results of her colon exam.
By reaching out to this particular charity i was able to help my mom receive the care that she needed.

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

A little about me

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So even though I thought I would never blog I'm glad I get to blog about something I'm passionate about. Although there were probably a lot of other things I could have chosen to blog about, I chose something that's very close to my heart. A couple years ago my dad suffered for 16 cardiac arrests followed by a stroke which left him paralyzed, and bed bound. A couple years after that my mom was diagnosed with breast, and colon cancer and had to have two operations to remove each of the cancers, and she later had to have radiation therapy. I was only nine when my father became sick, and even though I had God, and my family to help me overcome all of the things that were happening in my life it would have been nice to receive the support, and help of a charity.  After everything that's happened I've always wanted to one day have a charity of my own helping those who are sick and their families by giving them support and helping provide for their different needs. Since I can't do that right now I decided I should create my blog to help others who are going through different obstacles in their lives and to help them find support from other charities that are willing to help.
xoxo